I've stretched myself beyond my means - Ambar
I've stretched myself beyond my means|
|Date:||January 10th, 2002 02:08 pm (UTC)|| |
i'm intimately familiar with the state of mind that says "you're so messed up"...and it claims asking for help will only prove its point.
No, I don't even get that far, as a rule. The thought in my head is not "I need help," but "I'd really like to talk to someone," and the help notion won't even surface until a safe space is established, which requires a certain amount of conversation. Otherwise the defenses don't come down.